Change and People
I trust your are feeling great today:)? I feel wonderful, I have a huge challenge in front of me, but I’m working on a plan now to solve it, and as they say when there is a problem, universe immediately has a solution for you, it really does make sense don’t you think? The whole idea of this universe is to keep balance, there is jing and there is jang, there are men and there are women, there is good and there is evil, the contrast is necessary, otherwise how would we even know one from the other?
The state of eternal bliss, yes wonderful, one can say – i take it any time:) well, i beg you the differ:) if you are subscribed to my “brain food” you would have received a fanastic story a friend once told you about “Monkey in the Tower” monkey being our mind:) I’ll keep it mysterious, subscribe and you will get it, it’s a very smart, very true story and I’m pretty sure that every person on this planet can relate to it.
There is something about the human beings were constructed, that we need this diversity, i know Lider, my labrador wouldn’t mind bliss all the time, but this dog, or animals do not have ego, with its crazy needs of control, security, approval, etccc… animals are just happy:) very young children are pure as well, you might have heart the expression “tabula rasa” – blank slate, epistemological theory that we are born with literally clean mind, and as we get older we get programmed by society, by media and our Ego gets more and more in control, so now, the subject is change – can people change?
I will not write a long psychological dissertation here today, I just wanted to make a clear statement, yes they can, and why a statement, not a question?
Well, simply because I am becoming the change I want to see in this world, my husband does, i have dozens of clients and friends who do, and our conscieousness really is shifting and we are thank God:) evolving to humans who are much more tuned into vibrations of love, peace and harmony. Now, there are a lot of people who resist a change and use it as an excuse to say, that they can’t change or that you can’t change another person.
First one I dimiss, as you know by now everything is a question a choice, here again the video – remember repetition is the first law of learning:) 5 TIPS OF HOW TO WAKE UP TO THE GENIUS YOU ARE, second – yes, we can’t and shouldn’t wan’t to change anyone else, this whole blog is dedicated to SELF improvement, so every single person needs to decide for themselves what they want to do and when they are ready for it, if we try to force or God forbid black mail someone to change – that all off a sudden takes us back to “dark ages” and ego rules again, all your mind wants is some sort of control, so even if you are trying to really do good things – all you do is actually allow your ego to rule, you are going againt someone’s will and you are forcing it – let it go, you can’t control others period, look for examples in history what happens when people tried it and the distaters in humanity ( think Hitler, Stalin, etc…)
So, Let me give you a quote, that also beautifully explains it and it’s striktly connected with gratitude – absolutely necessary component in order for you to manifest whatever you want in your life, read this from “Daily teachings” by Rhonda Byrne:
“Trying to change someone is a waste of time. The very thought of changing someone is saying that they are not good enough as they are, and it is soaked with judgement and disapproval. That is not a thought of appreciation or love, and those thoughts will only bring separation between you and that person.
You must look for good in people to have more of it appear. As you look only for the good things in a person, you will be amazed at what your new focus reveals.”
Words of wisdom absolutely, I tried that with whom I considered a while ago my “enemies” worked like magic, they disappeared from my life into the obyss without any hard feelings, its as if universe took care of this for me, and those that stayed are my friends now.
Wishing you a beautiful, sunny day, With Love and Light, Natalia PH